Internalized Homophobia and the Inner Critic That Tried to Keep You Safe
You’re out, you’re proud, so why is that voice still there? A look at internalized homophobia as one of the strongest protective parts queer people carry, and what changes when you get to know it.
Finding Your Truth: Identity, Becoming, and the Work of Living Authentically
What's the difference between the identity you inherited and the one you actually discover? A personal reflection on accepted versus discovered identity, borrowed from Csikszentmihalyi's work on purpose, and what this process looks like for queer folks and couples learning to stay curious about each other's becoming.