Inclusive, low-cost therapy for people seeking growth, healing, and deeper connection.

You’ve landed in the right place.

A space to pause, reflect, be real, and come home to yourself.

At Here We Are Therapy, you’re welcome just as you are. Whether you're feeling stuck, seeking connection, or simply wanting to understand yourself more deeply.

phil di loreto

Meet phil (he/him)

I’m a therapist-in-training, certified integral coach, and someone who thrives in inspiring people to discover their best selves.

My approach is warm, curious, and collaborative. I’ll ask provocative questions, offer reflections to spark new perspectives, and be your fellow traveller on a journey of clarity, connection and trust with yourself and others. We’ll get to know all the parts of you that have helped you get to where you are today, and develop new strategies to help you get to where you want to be tomorrow.

Together, we can untangle what’s been feeling heavy or confusing, and move toward a life that feels more vibrant and alive.

I’m here to help you do your best and be your best.

Therapy Services

Whether you're navigating life transitions, relationship challenges, or seeking a deeper connection with yourself, therapy offers a space to be seen, supported, and understood. I work with individuals and relationships, offering affirming, inclusive care grounded in curiosity and compassion.

As an Intern Counsellor, I offer in-person and virtual low-cost counselling services on a sliding scale to make therapy accessible to you.

Queer Lived Experience

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Racial Justice Allied

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Trauma-Informed Care

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Queer Lived Experience 〰️ Racial Justice Allied 〰️ Trauma-Informed Care 〰️

individual therapy counselling

Individual Therapy

Deepen self-understanding, healing, and grow.

  • AREAS OF PRACTICE:

  • Anxiety and Depression

  • Stress and Burnout

  • Sexual and Gender Identity

  • Personal Growth

  • Relationships and Communication

  • Self-Esteem

  • Sexuality

couples therapy counselling

Relationship and Couples Therapy

Support for partners navigating connection, conflict, and change, together.

  • AREAS OF PRACTICE:

  • Communication

  • Conflict Management

  • Emotional intimacy and connection

    Ethical Non-Monogamy (incl. polyamoy)

  • Gender and Sexuality Issues

  • Navigating trust, betrayal, or ruptures

  • Queer and diverse relationship structures

Questions?

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If you’re ready to book your free 20-minute consultation, click here.

“Vulnerability isn’t winning or losing; it’s having the courage to show up and be seen when we have no control over the outcome.
Vulnerability isn’t weakness; it’s our greatest measure of courage.”

— Brené Brown, Author of Daring Greatly and The Gifts of Imperfection